If you are wondering if your boyfriend is cheating on you be on the lookout for certain telltale signs he might display. If you see any of these signs be more attentive to his behavior but be careful about accusing him before you have actual proof. If you are wrong, this alone could ruin your relationship.
Below are 6 things you can be watching out for if you have any suspicions. Of course there are more clues to watch out for but these can get you started.
1. Do you already have a feeling your boyfriend is up to something? Normally you should pay attention to your gut feelings. If you ignore them you may be missing out on the truth of the matter. You better than anyone should know your boyfriends habits and when they change you know something is not right.
2. Does he pay more attention to your needs now? If so he may be feeling guilty that he is cheating on you when he is in the beginning stages of an affair. As the cheating continues this extra attention will start to diminish.
3. Also if he starts buying you lots of gifts he could be feeling guilty about cheating on you. The theory is buying you gifts is supposed to make him feel better for what he has done. From your standpoint it will be obvious he is up to something if he never gave you gifts this way in the past.
4. If he is in a long term relationship he will do his best to make both relationships work. It will be difficult and something will go wrong eventually. If he has problems in the other relationship it will show when he is around you. Watch for out of the ordinary mood changes when he is with you, this could be a sign he is having trouble with the other girl.
5. If you get in a fight does he always talk about ending your relationship? He may make threats of leaving you knowing he has another girl to fall back on. Be cautious if you have to deal with this attitude especially if he says it often.
6. Has your communication broken down? He may have become impersonal with you or even avoids talking to you altogether if possible. He may even become inconsiderate of your feelings. While communication is very important in successful relationships, he may seem to have no interest in improving things.
